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First Formal Event

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Me and my Sweet One work together and a girl from work had invited us both to her wedding reception. As a couple this would be our first formal event together as we previously were invited to an informal event with work people.

When it got closer to this event we had to pick out something to wear. Most formal events aside from prom I have always worn Indian outfits as that is what I am used to but decided to wear a dress on this occasion. It was a nightmare! I ordered so many dresses and they just didn’t fit right but finally I found one! 😀 Blue and sparkly and had pockets… for some reason. My Sweet One we went out together to go pick a shirt for and we found one along with a tie that matched my outfit (I know its bit too cutesy but we wanted to match :D:D)   

The day of the reception we drove up to the place and headed in and it was a very pretty outdoor indoor set up with a small BBQ and a bar with the cake ready to be cut indoors. There was some cute favours and sweets around the room and there was pretty lights around once it got darker. We sat down and had bit of food and eventually more of our colleagues showed up. After the cake cutting and food they played some music and for some reason I was in the mood to dance so I took my Sweet One and had a nice little time together until it was time to leave 😀

I am not very good at social events but since the girl from work had been nice enough to invite us I didn’t want to be rude and refuse and besides you don’t know what could happen 😀

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First Holiday! Part Two

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Took bit of time out from this but I am back from my holiday :D:D

I did already discuss about going away with my Sweet One in a previous blog. Please click the link below to read my First Holiday blog:

  https://thesweetestpartsoflove.wordpress.com/2018/05/08/holiday/

I have never gone on holiday with an other half before but as a first of possibly many many more holidays to come it wasn’t half bad :D. Me and My Sweet One went to Greece for a week and to be honest I think that was just bout right as we enjoyed ourselves, had the freedom to do what we felt like doing and had no problems with one another.

When we decided to go on this holiday we didn’t want to plan too much about what we were going to do while we were there or anything. We just wanted a relaxing holiday with the freedom to do things according to our mood. We could spend time at the beach, walk round the different tourist shops, go on an excursion, spend the evening at the hotel or see the evening entertainment if or when we wanted with no restrictions or stress as the main point of this was to spend time together.

Sharing a room and being together from morning until bedtime was something we did wonder about having never spent a full day along with spending the night at the same time but given the novelty of it we made the most of it, cuddling up when going to sleep, brushing our teeth together in the morning and even laying out on the bed like starfishes sweating from the extreme heat !

While we there we managed to book ourselves up for a tour and a turtle cruise which we really enjoyed. The tour included a small boat ride and the cruise had us swimming in the sea. On the days we hadn’t planned anything we did a long walk to explore the area, did a round of mini golf, walked on the beach, did a bit of swimming and ate lots of food at meal times! 

 We get on really well together and the fact that we could spend all day with each and not have to say goodbye at the end of it…. well we Loved every minute of it! The entire time we were there we held hands wherever we went, gave each other random hugs and kisses and shared our appreciation for one another even including small romantic things too 😀

The particular island of Greece we went to was very pretty and we enjoyed the blue waters and sunshine everyday and as a first boyfriend girlfriend holiday together all I can say is “when can we do this again?”…..:D  

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First Holiday!!!

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I mentioned in one of my other posts that I would be going on holiday. What I didn’t mention that this would be my first holiday without my family. Growing up I had a group of friends and when we had some savings aside and felt old enough we decided to plan to go away together but since there was so many of us it was difficult to even plan anything as everyone wanted something different and we just couldn’t agree so ended up doing nothing. Getting into relationships especially my long term one I expected to go away at some point together but he just never seemed interested and kept telling me to do things with other people. My family had their own plans with relationships, my siblings went with their friends or other halves and my parents did a random 4-5 days here and there over the year. Due to all the above I have not been away for bout 8years and I mean a flight holiday not the coach and train days trips and weekends I randomly do.

Since me and my Sweet One have been together a  few months now we haven’t really properly had time alone away from people at work or families at home and since we met during the winter time we never had a chance to really go many places but since the weather is heating up we have decided to book our first holiday together. Since neither of us have gone away in a relationship we decided to do no longer then a week just in case. I really doubt we will have any problems being together all day everyday but its a precaution and even though we are both looking forward to it we want to make sure we plan things in such away that we have no problems and can freely enjoy our time together.

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Random conversation- Swimsuit VS Bikini

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Thinking about the holidays I did get myself a swimsuit and no I didn’t opt for the bikini I’m not comfortable in it and I don’t think it will flatter me, in spite of people saying given how skinny I am I could wear anything and not worry. Knowing my body and what would roughly suit me and hide certain things I’m not happy about I disagree with those comments and kept the one piece swimsuit I had, which I might add I look pretty good in ;0)

Talking to the Sweet One he said I’d look nice in a bikini and said he would like to see me wear one day when I showed him what I was going to take with me on holiday(more on this later). I told him that fair enough I put one on for him so he can see me in a bikini but he won’t be the only one seeing me in. He asked me who else I would be showing it too but I replied that when we go to the pool and beach together other people will see me and even other men would look at me and I asked him if he really wanted other people to see me that way. Funny enough and slightly surprisingly enough he said he didn’t want other people looking at me. I thought he would reply with something like “I want everyone to see my girlfriend and how pretty she looks in it and that she is mine” but I guess he realised something, I thought the whole conversation was quite odd. Either way whether he wants to see me in a bikini or not it would be my choice in what I want to wear and I’m going to stick with my colourful, flattering one piece which I know I’m going to feel comfortable on my holiday in and enjoy it too besides the Sweet One already agrees I look nice in it so its only going to encourage me to wear it more 😀

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Meet the parents :D- I finally brought someone home!

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I don’t think I ever mentioned this but here it is now. I have never brought a guy home to meet my parents!! :O:O:O

(the lions are just from my previous blog Meet the Parents click link below to read:

 https://thesweetestpartsoflove.wordpress.com/2017/10/17/meet-the-parentsfamily/)Yep in spite of 3boyfriends including the long term one I could never tell my family bout me dating….However lucky number 4 got to experience it first hand on his side as well as mine. This wasn’t particularly a proper meeting as it was an impulse for him to come collect me from for our date. It didn’t exactly go to plan but I do feel that the fact that I  even took this step means that I am really serious bout the Sweet One being in my life. I finally tried to be brave and take a bit more control of what I want. This meet was very short so I am planning to do this again maybe teatime or dinner or something when my siblings aren’t around so the Sweet One can talk to my parents. I know there may be somethings they wont approve of but all I need for now is the awareness and acceptance and as for the liking him stuff  that will come when they get to know him more.

Wish me luck! ;0)

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Relationships you want: Instructor Dojo and Iku Kasahara

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I started reading my first ever manga series and its called Library Wars and I enjoyed reading bout the main two characters.

What they do for each other

Dojo helps Kasahara by abusing his position to stop her favourite book from being confiscated by the MBC

Kasahara saves Dojo inspite of his orders when he gets shot

Dojo repeatedly comes to Kasaharas rescue

Kasahara takes Dojo to get some camomile tea as hehas not had it before

Dojo tries to keep Kasahara’s parents from finding out what her job is

 

What their relationship includes

Fights

Arguments

“Dream Prince”

Love

Overall this relationship shows

Love appears in the most random places

It is possible to forgot the face pf someone you really like and look up to

it is possible to turn Hate to Love

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The Thoughts of Disappointments

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I decided to share something else today and its more to do with my feelings of right now. I have explained in past posts about a new development in my Love life which is the Sweet One (although lately I’ve been thinking of him as the Sweet but Crazy One :0P) and how this relationship is slightly different to the others I’ve had. In this relationship my Sweet One is the one experiencing the new shiny stuff of relationships and I can see his eyes wide like a magpies at this rate and I just have these odd feelings I will fail as a girlfriend and a future life partner. I know that he will always be understanding to my craziness but it does not mean that my feelings that I could be a great disappointment to him ,of what Love and relationships are will disappear and it horrifies me that I could be the cause of his faith and trust as well as belief being damaged. In past relationships I have always made jokes about how I am “The Best Girlfriend Ever!” knowing full well I could never say it and mean it or even think it could be remotely true as the confidence in myself is lacking and it makes me wonder how I can be in a relationship at all.

Expectations and disappointments have a tendency to end up hand in hand sometimes and it jus makes you not want to get too hopeful or excited of what the future holds and in my case its this relationship. I really like the Sweet One and I know he could be good to me but I just cant bring my to expect too much from him and I know there must be expectations on his side but he will never say and I feel I should really know what they are so as not to be too much of a disappointment to him. I want to be a good girlfriend and hopefully a great future life partner where I can fill his life with happiness but there’s this little feeling in the back of my head that just feels I will never achieve that.  

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