Honeymoon!<3

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I thought I would talk about the “Honeymoon” stage for this post. The “Honeymoon” stage for those of you who don’t know, is when you are in the beginning of your relationship when everything is all sweet, cute and romantic before the “reality” stage comes along. You still hug and kiss and say I Love you throughout the day, you want to dress up all nice for each other, you go out all the time, want to talk hours on the phone after already meeting up and everything you do and they do always seems so adorable ;0) For most people the Honeymoon stage is at the very beginning of the  relationship and last from the first couple of months to a year max. That is roughly what most people will tell you.

In my view the “Honeymoon” stage can be different for everyone. I think it can last quite some time depending on how you are in your relationship. Me and my Special Someone I feel are still in some sort of stage that is close to the Honeymoon stage but it definitely isn’t the Honeymoon stage and after 5years of being together it’s probably about right and I don’t think it is a bad thing either. At the beginning of our relationship during the “Honeymoon” stage there was lots of intimacy and closeness, we were always very affectionate and we could never get enough of spending time together. Here is a list of what I think our “Honeymoon stage” consists of :

1. Lots of I Love Yous

2. Stomach butterflies and tummy jumps

3.Lots of random texts through out the day

4. Long phone calls

5. Whole day together and coming home late

6. Lots of cuddles and talks on the sofa doing nothing

7. Gifts just because (they don’t have to expensive)

8. Surprise visits and pick ups

9. Hand holding everywhere

10. Lots of Love making  ;0)

11. Meeting up almost everyday

 Compared to that and the stage we are in today I’d say we still do number 1, 2,5, 6 and 7 same as we did back then and the rest well they exist in some way or form;-). Although I do miss the old (younger!) us and the spontaneity we used to have, I do look forward to how we can both grow and become even cuter and stronger as the years go by which in a way is so much better then the honeymoon period 😛

Honeymoon stages are meant to end some day but they don’t mean anything is bad or wrong with your relationship, so don’t take it to heart just view your relationship differently. Besides you still have an actual Honeymoon to experience! (if you are already married well you can always have a second honeymoon;-))

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