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First Formal Event

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Me and my Sweet One work together and a girl from work had invited us both to her wedding reception. As a couple this would be our first formal event together as we previously were invited to an informal event with work people.

When it got closer to this event we had to pick out something to wear. Most formal events aside from prom I have always worn Indian outfits as that is what I am used to but decided to wear a dress on this occasion. It was a nightmare! I ordered so many dresses and they just didn’t fit right but finally I found one! 😀 Blue and sparkly and had pockets… for some reason. My Sweet One we went out together to go pick a shirt for and we found one along with a tie that matched my outfit (I know its bit too cutesy but we wanted to match :D:D)   

The day of the reception we drove up to the place and headed in and it was a very pretty outdoor indoor set up with a small BBQ and a bar with the cake ready to be cut indoors. There was some cute favours and sweets around the room and there was pretty lights around once it got darker. We sat down and had bit of food and eventually more of our colleagues showed up. After the cake cutting and food they played some music and for some reason I was in the mood to dance so I took my Sweet One and had a nice little time together until it was time to leave 😀

I am not very good at social events but since the girl from work had been nice enough to invite us I didn’t want to be rude and refuse and besides you don’t know what could happen 😀

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First Holiday! Part Two

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Took bit of time out from this but I am back from my holiday :D:D

I did already discuss about going away with my Sweet One in a previous blog. Please click the link below to read my First Holiday blog:

  https://thesweetestpartsoflove.wordpress.com/2018/05/08/holiday/

I have never gone on holiday with an other half before but as a first of possibly many many more holidays to come it wasn’t half bad :D. Me and My Sweet One went to Greece for a week and to be honest I think that was just bout right as we enjoyed ourselves, had the freedom to do what we felt like doing and had no problems with one another.

When we decided to go on this holiday we didn’t want to plan too much about what we were going to do while we were there or anything. We just wanted a relaxing holiday with the freedom to do things according to our mood. We could spend time at the beach, walk round the different tourist shops, go on an excursion, spend the evening at the hotel or see the evening entertainment if or when we wanted with no restrictions or stress as the main point of this was to spend time together.

Sharing a room and being together from morning until bedtime was something we did wonder about having never spent a full day along with spending the night at the same time but given the novelty of it we made the most of it, cuddling up when going to sleep, brushing our teeth together in the morning and even laying out on the bed like starfishes sweating from the extreme heat !

While we there we managed to book ourselves up for a tour and a turtle cruise which we really enjoyed. The tour included a small boat ride and the cruise had us swimming in the sea. On the days we hadn’t planned anything we did a long walk to explore the area, did a round of mini golf, walked on the beach, did a bit of swimming and ate lots of food at meal times! 

 We get on really well together and the fact that we could spend all day with each and not have to say goodbye at the end of it…. well we Loved every minute of it! The entire time we were there we held hands wherever we went, gave each other random hugs and kisses and shared our appreciation for one another even including small romantic things too 😀

The particular island of Greece we went to was very pretty and we enjoyed the blue waters and sunshine everyday and as a first boyfriend girlfriend holiday together all I can say is “when can we do this again?”…..:D  

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Songs of Love: Addictive Love- Rock Bottom

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I have listened to Hailee Steinfeld but have not seen this one until now. This song is called Rock Bottom and it features DNCE. This song seems to be about a continuous Love Hate Make up Break up kind of relationship that no matter how many times they fight and end their relationship they always come back to each other in the end.

Please click the link for the song and music video:https://youtu.be/liwCttfeJ7E

This song has a good beat and is a complicated but real emotion song. Makes you think.

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I want you all to myself

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I discovered something strange about myself and that is sometimes I can be a little bit greedy and selfish. When I say that you probably think I’m just a horrible person who doesn’t know how to share and who thinks it is perfectly ok to take as much of anything and everything she wants without a care or thought of others. I would say that too… but this is different

When I say I am a bit greedy I mean that I want to keep someone with me all the time and have them spend all their time with me and when I say I’m a bit selfish I mean that I don’t want to share that person with anyone else at all I just want to keep them all to myself.

I’ve been with my Sweet One for quite a few months now and I’m always experiencing crazy moments even ones like this. I’m not jealous of who he spends time with and I have no problem with other people who get close to him because I know he thinks of me as his but even then my crazy head just doesn’t want him to be with anyone else but me. I’ve always tried to make a point of balancing different parts of your life and never focusing on one thing too much as with relationships it can be unpredictable. Making sure to keep other parts of your life going is very important but lately my life is him and only him and right now I don’t even feel bad as I Love every moment we have together and even if things go bit weird we make it out almost as quickly as we entered it. I Love him and I want to have him all to myself….

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First Holiday!!!

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I mentioned in one of my other posts that I would be going on holiday. What I didn’t mention that this would be my first holiday without my family. Growing up I had a group of friends and when we had some savings aside and felt old enough we decided to plan to go away together but since there was so many of us it was difficult to even plan anything as everyone wanted something different and we just couldn’t agree so ended up doing nothing. Getting into relationships especially my long term one I expected to go away at some point together but he just never seemed interested and kept telling me to do things with other people. My family had their own plans with relationships, my siblings went with their friends or other halves and my parents did a random 4-5 days here and there over the year. Due to all the above I have not been away for bout 8years and I mean a flight holiday not the coach and train days trips and weekends I randomly do.

Since me and my Sweet One have been together a  few months now we haven’t really properly had time alone away from people at work or families at home and since we met during the winter time we never had a chance to really go many places but since the weather is heating up we have decided to book our first holiday together. Since neither of us have gone away in a relationship we decided to do no longer then a week just in case. I really doubt we will have any problems being together all day everyday but its a precaution and even though we are both looking forward to it we want to make sure we plan things in such away that we have no problems and can freely enjoy our time together.

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Return of the Ex- The Long Haired One

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I have not really had much experience with having much to do with an ex after the relationship is over except for one which was my Special Someone who I have my Furry Princess with. Going through some stuff and changing rooms I found something that did not belong to me. It was given to me as a reminder of the Long Haired when we did not know when we would see each other again as we were going through a long distance relationship. He gave me something that his mother had made for him and he had been wearing almost everyday and since it wasn’t just a regular gift I did not feel right in keeping it and felt I should return it.

Since the break up and my new relationship I have no contact with him and so sent it to the last address I had for him, his parents house thinking even if he wasn’t going to still be there he could still receive it. Just to be sure that he knew there was something I left him a short message. I did not want to continue talking to him due to what happened and felt it was best we go separate ways so I just kept it simple letting him know something was in the post on its way to him and wished him well. I got a message of thanks and that he had some stuff he never sent me (xmas gifts)and then got told to leave him alone. I told him I was just returning his belongings which I didn’t feel right in keeping and that he did not need to worry bout sending me anything if he didn’t want anything to do with me as he did not want to be friends he wanted to revisit what we had before.

I of course had moved on as his health is important and I had already been in a similar situation with my Special Someone and did not want to be in that place again. Given the fact I was closing in on the age of thirty and wanted to eventually have a family of my own I have to prioritise and waiting for someone with mental health problems to improve just wouldn’t move my life forward no matter how heart breaking it is. Mental health isn’t something that can get fixed easily or quickly or even at all and sometimes the stress of having a relationship just doesn’t help and so in my mind it was already set that friendship was all we would have and nothing more but since he had no interest in that and wanted to pursue a relationship I don’t think I will be hearing from him.

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Random conversation- Swimsuit VS Bikini

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Thinking about the holidays I did get myself a swimsuit and no I didn’t opt for the bikini I’m not comfortable in it and I don’t think it will flatter me, in spite of people saying given how skinny I am I could wear anything and not worry. Knowing my body and what would roughly suit me and hide certain things I’m not happy about I disagree with those comments and kept the one piece swimsuit I had, which I might add I look pretty good in ;0)

Talking to the Sweet One he said I’d look nice in a bikini and said he would like to see me wear one day when I showed him what I was going to take with me on holiday(more on this later). I told him that fair enough I put one on for him so he can see me in a bikini but he won’t be the only one seeing me in. He asked me who else I would be showing it too but I replied that when we go to the pool and beach together other people will see me and even other men would look at me and I asked him if he really wanted other people to see me that way. Funny enough and slightly surprisingly enough he said he didn’t want other people looking at me. I thought he would reply with something like “I want everyone to see my girlfriend and how pretty she looks in it and that she is mine” but I guess he realised something, I thought the whole conversation was quite odd. Either way whether he wants to see me in a bikini or not it would be my choice in what I want to wear and I’m going to stick with my colourful, flattering one piece which I know I’m going to feel comfortable on my holiday in and enjoy it too besides the Sweet One already agrees I look nice in it so its only going to encourage me to wear it more 😀

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