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NEW YEAR

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HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Wishing you all a magical start to the new year of 2018!!!

Have fun whatever you end up doing to bring in the new year

Rexina

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Not So Sweet….When you are being taken advantage of

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What can I say I hear and read way too much about this sort of thing and it is not right at all but its something that exists and I do feel that’s its important to make these things known and not have them hidden. There are so many people out there whether they are people you know or people you hear about in the news who experience sexual assault and its just getting ridiculous how many people out there think its perfectly ok and how many people even choose to keep quiet about it.

People who are in positions with people they know whether its in a school environment, work environment or just out and about (or even your own home) its very difficult to know whether what’s happening is ok or not (As I am typing this I am sure people are getting confused by this but it will make sense in a minute) When you are around someone who you have to show respect for or in a position where you feel you need to be nice sometimes its hard to speak up for yourself without creating a scene or effecting things like jobs, education or even friendship. The mistake here is that you forget that you have self worth and respect for yourself and no one should feel its ok to disrespect you and you not do anything about it. Its not ok and its not right either. There are people that will help you and be understanding if you just tell someone and if possible tell the person themselves to back off and to stay away from you as it is unwanted attention. It isn’t necessary to swear or worry about coming off rude as you have every right to tell them exactly where to go as without your consent they should not be invading your personal space.

There is another thing that is why people keep quiet sometimes its not because of losing a job or anything like that sometimes its gaining a reputation or having friends judge you or disrespect you. This is something that confuses me a lot. If you are a victim in this what name will you gain when the person who is wrong is the one abusing you. This is another reason to speak up, if you don’t the other person will, they will tell people that it was you and they will make  the whole thing look like they didn’t do anything wrong at all and that you are just one of “those types” of people, whether you are male or female it can turn on you both so don’t think that you are ok either way. Speak up and make yourself heard and don’t feel ashamed when you aren’t wrong. Please be careful and look after yourself and make sure that people aren’t overstepping the mark

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Feeling Vulnerable

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Hmmm… this is kind of strange. I didn’t think I would end up feeling this way again but here I am. As mentioned before my relationship with my Special Someone has ended and I have managed to move on with the Long Haired One but I didn’t think I would end up having these awkward feelings again. Being with the Special Someone I remember at the beginning I did suffer from a bit of clinginess and vulnerability and it caused some issues in the relationship and we ended up having a lot of serious discussions and after that I thought I had resolved everything and wouldn’t be like this again… turns out I was wrong.

The Long Haired One and I have been slowly getting through our relationship, taking our time to get to know each other properly but there are certain things that seemed to make me feel uneasy. One thing I can say about the Long Haired One is that I feel I can trust him and there is nothing in him that seems like he will wrong me but I do feel quite vulnerable and I do feel the need to talk and be around him often even when it is not possible. I don’t like being apart from him and I constantly feel the need to be with him and it makes no sense. I try to keep myself occupied with other things in my life but at the end of the day the missing him part just becomes more vivid and it just makes me feel quite sad and lonely. I have wondered why if I am able to trust him do I feel these strange feelings and if they will go away as in the back of my mind I know he wont leave me or cheat me but the front feels slightly vulnerable et that something bad could happen. I don’t know if any of this makes sense but this is kind of what is going through my mind at the moment.

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3 Years Blog-versary!

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It has been three years and we are still going ;op

To all that read my random blogs thank you! and to the ones that stick around thank you even more. We will see if I am still around another year later 😀

Rexina

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Know your worth!

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Another of my cousin’s and mine little chats and another thing I said to her which is pretty much going to be my blog post today 😀

You are a Beautiful and a very Unique girl and it’s something you shouldn’t forget. 

You aren’t a one night stand or something guys can pick up when they want and drop when they want.

You are special and have more worth then they can imagine, Make them work for it!!

Your time and affection aren’t cheap so don’t play easy and give it away for free- even the escorts don’t do that!!;-)

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Respect Yourself and You will be Respected in turn

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I am sure in some of my previous posts I have mentioned similar things to this but I feel I should give respect it’s own post ;0)

People are giving themselves less respect when it comes to relationships and they feel that they have no worth, however there are also people who feel that they should disrespect their bodies by putting themselves in certain situations that they aren’t quite comfortable with, whether it due to relationships, friendships or social situations in general.

One thing that is important to remember is that no matter what anyone else says, do things because that is what you want for you and in your life and because that is what you like.

I was talking to my cousin about stuff and she inspired me to write this post because of what we she said to me about my “empowering” (her word not mine ;0P)words. Sadly I could not remember exactly what I said but I am going to have a go at something similar, so bear with me 😀

“You are a well brought up, smart and beautiful girl (guy if any guys are reading ;0))and deserve to be Loved and respected. People are always going to think certain things about you and say certain things and treat you a certain way because they think its ok and that the fact they can charm you will make it seem like you won’t notice that they are disrespecting you and playing around with you and you will fall for it. Never forget that you are worth something, worth more then they will ever know and that you won’t allow anyone to treat you than less your worth. Keep your head screwed on and use your common sense to work people out and always show respect for yourself for when you do people will start to respect you too

Hopefully this is making some sense as I really can’t remember what I said :0( But basically what I am trying to say is Love and respect you and your body because you are special and deserve lots and the people that are genuine will love and respect you back.

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