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Interracial Relationships

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I have always mentioned about different people I have met up with and how everyone has different beliefs and interests and so there are times when this is obvious to others and sometimes not acceptable. I have been in positions where people look at you weird or even if they know you feel its ok to tell you its not ok. In my head I have always been accepting of any kind of relationship as I’ve always believed that relationships and love have always come in many forms and so I would never feel that someone shouldn’t be together especially if they are happy.

Looking back at all my relationships I have always been with someone who was different from me in every single way as I don’t think looking for someone specifically the same as you is necessary as you might find someone you can make an amazing connection with just about anyone who may not be apart of your culture, religion or background. I think its important to keep an open heart when it comes to love in this way as you might miss out on something magic with someone you never thought you would end up with and someone you can share your own culture and background with as well as learn about theirs,

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Smarter Other Half

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This is something that has happened a couple of times and I do feel pretty dumb literally pretty dumb when a guy I have been in a relationship with or dated for a little while is so much smarter then I am. I wouldn’t say I’m stupid but there have been times when big words have been used or certain interests or discussions have come up and I haven’t got a clue. Very embarrassing.

Thinking back to when I was younger I was one of those people who looked liked they could be really brainy but deep down wasn’t very academic so who it was always awkward when people would want help. There were times when I knew what was going on and could offer my help but other times I just had no idea bout anything, As I got older I tried to get more interests and meet more people and have more meaningful conversations but there was always someone who had that much more knowledge then me that was enough for me to feel intimidated.

When it comes to dating someone you don’t want to be made stupid in anyway you want to be able to show something of yourself for your own self respect and self worth but there are times when you may not feel like that when it feels like someone is showing you up. With the Long Haired One he was really smart and had knowledge about lots of different things and during our conversations I found myself having to look up what he meant to make sense of things but I did end up telling him the truth bout how I felt, He was quite understanding and told me not to feel inadequate in comparison to him and that it did not effect our relationship. 

Something I guess I could say is that you should never feel ashamed that you aren’t smart enough, as everyone has different wisdom and interests in life and so you should never compare yourself to your other half.  Your other half could seem smart in one way but may lack knowledge in something that you know all about. Always know that you are a unique and wise in your own way and your other half will Love you just as you are and will consider themselves lucky to have you.   

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Something Sweet from Christmas

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Its that time of year again! Christmas time is on its way very soon and its also that time when you have to think about meaningful or even functional gifts for all your close people as well as your other half. When it comes to shopping for your loved one going the sweet and simple way is something that really makes the gift just that bit special.  I have always thought about making gifts or buying personalised gifts or really thinking bout things that they have really enjoyed even if it is something really small. Being creative really pays off in this side of things so really put your thinking cap on and work out something you can present to your other half that they will really appreciate this year.

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Not So Sweet….When you are being taken advantage of

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What can I say I hear and read way too much about this sort of thing and it is not right at all but its something that exists and I do feel that’s its important to make these things known and not have them hidden. There are so many people out there whether they are people you know or people you hear about in the news who experience sexual assault and its just getting ridiculous how many people out there think its perfectly ok and how many people even choose to keep quiet about it.

People who are in positions with people they know whether its in a school environment, work environment or just out and about (or even your own home) its very difficult to know whether what’s happening is ok or not (As I am typing this I am sure people are getting confused by this but it will make sense in a minute) When you are around someone who you have to show respect for or in a position where you feel you need to be nice sometimes its hard to speak up for yourself without creating a scene or effecting things like jobs, education or even friendship. The mistake here is that you forget that you have self worth and respect for yourself and no one should feel its ok to disrespect you and you not do anything about it. Its not ok and its not right either. There are people that will help you and be understanding if you just tell someone and if possible tell the person themselves to back off and to stay away from you as it is unwanted attention. It isn’t necessary to swear or worry about coming off rude as you have every right to tell them exactly where to go as without your consent they should not be invading your personal space.

There is another thing that is why people keep quiet sometimes its not because of losing a job or anything like that sometimes its gaining a reputation or having friends judge you or disrespect you. This is something that confuses me a lot. If you are a victim in this what name will you gain when the person who is wrong is the one abusing you. This is another reason to speak up, if you don’t the other person will, they will tell people that it was you and they will make  the whole thing look like they didn’t do anything wrong at all and that you are just one of “those types” of people, whether you are male or female it can turn on you both so don’t think that you are ok either way. Speak up and make yourself heard and don’t feel ashamed when you aren’t wrong. Please be careful and look after yourself and make sure that people aren’t overstepping the mark

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Furry Princesses 5th Birthday

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I just wanted to wish my Special little fur baby a HAPPY BIRTHDAY and wish her all the happiness in the world :D:D:D

I also would like to wish everyone who may be celebrating a birthday today so HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! Also I hope you are all enjoying the rush up to Christmas!!!!

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