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Meet the parents :D- I finally brought someone home!

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I don’t think I ever mentioned this but here it is now. I have never brought a guy home to meet my parents!! :O:O:O

(the lions are just from my previous blog Meet the Parents click link below to read:

 https://thesweetestpartsoflove.wordpress.com/2017/10/17/meet-the-parentsfamily/)Yep in spite of 3boyfriends including the long term one I could never tell my family bout me dating….However lucky number 4 got to experience it first hand on his side as well as mine. This wasn’t particularly a proper meeting as it was an impulse for him to come collect me from for our date. It didn’t exactly go to plan but I do feel that the fact that I  even took this step means that I am really serious bout the Sweet One being in my life. I finally tried to be brave and take a bit more control of what I want. This meet was very short so I am planning to do this again maybe teatime or dinner or something when my siblings aren’t around so the Sweet One can talk to my parents. I know there may be somethings they wont approve of but all I need for now is the awareness and acceptance the liking him stuff will come when the get to know him more.

Wish me luck! ;0)

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Songs of Love: Vulnerable-Delicate

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I have been listening to a song that you just cant help but love. The music video on top of it is amazing too(Her dancing is absolute magic :D) The song is called Delicate and its from Taylor Swifts Reputation album.

To listen to this song and watch the music video please click the link below:

https://youtu.be/tCXGJQYZ9JA

This song gives you that feeling of vulnerability when you like someone and Taylor Swift seems to have captured that perfectly in this song. I really enjoy listening to this song as its so innocent and sweet and you really get some feeling being stirred.

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Songs of Love: Honeymoon Stage/Lovey Dovey Day -Dreamin’

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I have been listening to a lot of Ariana Grande songs and this particular song is one of my favourites right now, its called Daydreamin’ and is from Ariana’s Yours Truly album.

To listen to the song please click the link below. I was not able to find a music video (not sure there is one) but I did find lyrics:  

https://youtu.be/M0ZLpq-U1Cs

This song seems to have a slight older style to it and there is a conversation or the sound of a radio or T.V in the background at the end of it. This song really does give you that lovey dovey feel of just thinking about someone you really like or Love. Ariana’s voice is incredibly beautiful and I really recommend you listen to this song :D:D:D

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Relationships you want: Instructor Dojo and Iku Kasahara

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I started reading my first ever manga series and its called Library Wars and I enjoyed reading bout the main two characters.

What they do for each other

Dojo helps Kasahara by abusing his position to stop her favourite book from being confiscated by the MBC

Kasahara saves Dojo inspite of his orders when he gets shot

Dojo repeatedly comes to Kasaharas rescue

Kasahara takes Dojo to get some camomile tea as hehas not had it before

Dojo tries to keep Kasahara’s parents from finding out what her job is

 

What their relationship includes

Fights

Arguments

“Dream Prince”

Love

Overall this relationship shows

Love appears in the most random places

It is possible to forgot the face pf someone you really like and look up to

it is possible to turn Hate to Love

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The Thoughts of Disappointments

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I decided to share something else today and its more to do with my feelings of right now. I have explained in past posts about a new development in my Love life which is the Sweet One (although lately I’ve been thinking of him as the Sweet but Crazy One :0P) and how this relationship is slightly different to the others I’ve had. In this relationship my Sweet One is the one experiencing the new shiny stuff of relationships and I can see his eyes wide like a magpies at this rate and I just have these odd feelings I will fail as a girlfriend and a future life partner. I know that he will always be understanding to my craziness but it does not mean that my feelings that I could be a great disappointment to him ,of what Love and relationships are will disappear and it horrifies me that I could be the cause of his faith and trust as well as belief being damaged. In past relationships I have always made jokes about how I am “The Best Girlfriend Ever!” knowing full well I could never say it and mean it or even think it could be remotely true as the confidence in myself is lacking and it makes me wonder how I can be in a relationship at all.

Expectations and disappointments have a tendency to end up hand in hand sometimes and it jus makes you not want to get too hopeful or excited of what the future holds and in my case its this relationship. I really like the Sweet One and I know he could be good to me but I just cant bring my to expect too much from him and I know there must be expectations on his side but he will never say and I feel I should really know what they are so as not to be too much of a disappointment to him. I want to be a good girlfriend and hopefully a great future life partner where I can fill his life with happiness but there’s this little feeling in the back of my head that just feels I will never achieve that.  

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Relationships You Want- (Sailor Moon) Serena and (Tuxedo Mask) Darien

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Ok this is one I had to include. I have been constantly watching Sailor Moon and I have seen a couple of seasons now and I just adore Serena and Darien’s relationship.

What they do for each other

Darien always tries to rescue her when she is in trouble

Serena puts her life on the line for Darien

Darien likes Serena in spite of her craziness

Serena supports Darien

What their relationship includes

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They are Superheroes ;0P

A pink haired future daughter

They are Royalty

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First Relationship- EVER!

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I have talked about many of my relationships and in all of them I’ve always been the least experienced one but this time round I’m apparently the “more experienced” one. The Sweet One has never been in a relationship before and had never dated anyone before me.

I have noticed somethings about the Sweet One and that is he is trying a lot harder then he needs to, most likely as he really doesn’t want this to fail, he seems quite clingy towards me, he is overly protective and very affectionate, All of these things I have noticed in myself at some point at the beginning of dating and its rather surreal being on the other end of it as I am now experiencing what the “other” other halves had to go through when they were me, I can say it does feel a little bit too much sometimes but as I always try to be as understanding as possible as I cant remember exactly how I was or even how much I was and if they put with me I guess its just a case of me doing the same… I mean that’s fair right ;0)

Growing up I always used to hear bout guys our age being immature or less experienced in how to treat a girl in a relationship and so girls used to opt for older men who were more experienced but I find that someone who hasn’t been in a relationship to be someone who may not always get things right but who is trying so hard to do so. He will always appreciate you, he wont cheat on you (well it seems unlikely if you are his first), he will always offer to help you, he will always want to be affectionate, he will talk to you for hours on end simply just to hear your voice and want to be around you and hold you close just because you are his and I think all of that is pretty sweet in itself.

Being the “more experienced” makes me feel a lot of pressure to know what I’m doing and to not break their heart by accident. I really don’t want to hurt him and its something I feel I might do and I have no idea why. Everything that we do together I want to make nice and special as if it was my first experience in dating and relationships I would want to make a big deal out of it and so I’m trying to make that happen for him. He has come to mean a lot to me and I don’t want to disappoint him in anyway.

Although things seem are a bit odd right now what with the constant want to be touching, close or even just nearby for as long as possible I do find that being around his company makes me feel more special as he wants to make the effort with me, he is excited about our relationship and I really feel that if he could he would do absolutely anything for me. He is in fact drowning quite badly and heaven knows why he things so highly of me but even though I’m still uncomfortable (I’m weird bout anything nice about me) I am flattered he likes me at all 😀  

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