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The Climbing Man

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My update on my date with the Climbing man AKA the Random guy ;o)- I call him the Climbing man as I discovered he climbs as a hobby funny enough :D.

The Climbing man I had roughly been speaking to for two weeks on and off in a very friend like way and on the 3rd week we met up. He suggested a park so I picked one that I know of as I have enjoyed going there in the past. I could walk and get there in half hour and he was going to drive for over an hour to get there. I did tell him I am too far away and that maybe us meeting is not such a good idea, but he insisted it was fine.

I was not nervous or feeling anxious in anyway I was actually doing pretty good in spite of the cloudy weather. I arrived after he had already got there (I was not late, I still had 5mins :D) and he recognised me straight away. We decided to walk round the lake while chatting about random things and then stopped to get drink after going halfway round the lake. 

We seemed to get on quite well and we did like to have little jokes and laugh about silly things. He had told me he was interested in some climbing stuff they had so we headed off to the activity area and he had some fun climbing up all the different things they had. I hadn’t any trainers so I could not join him but I enjoyed watching him. We decided to take a detour and we ended up sitting on a random patch of grass listening to his random music and looking up what I liked listening to. We met some random dogs who came over to say hello to us which was nice. We started to walk back towards the lake and he seemed to try and reach for my hand and it was so embarrassing for me. I’m not sure why but I just had to shut my eyes and laugh (yes I am a strange one lol)

Time was going by and it had been getting late and I had 3hours til I had to be in bed for work the next day so had to make a start home. He offered to drop me near by to my house. He parked not far from where I lived and we talked and well I’m just going to leave it there…:0)… but I will say there will be another update ;0) 😀    

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3 Years Blog-versary!

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It has been three years and we are still going ;op

To all that read my random blogs thank you! and to the ones that stick around thank you even more. We will see if I am still around another year later 😀

Rexina

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Online Profile Weirdness

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Ok I am just going to list stuff that I have noticed about dating websites. Lists are always fun.

  • There are people that have no picture of their face and barely a description on their profile
  • There are a lot of people claiming they are shy
  • Some people put up group photos and only that photo so you can’t tell who the profile belongs to
  • A lot people will be open to asking for something “casual”
  • There are some very desperate people
  • Some people will stalk you to see when you are online
  • You will end up finding some very “interesting” people
  • One person will say hello several times if you don’t reply within a few minutes
  • Someone will always ask “don’t you have more pictures?”
  • There are some cheesy lined people out there (yes they still exist!!!)
  • People will use anything on your profile as an excuse for your compatibility
  • If there are two people in the profile picture you may fancy the one who’s profile it isn’t (strange how that happens
  • People from other countries will send a paragraph and ask you to be friends with them
  • A lot of people don’t smile in their photos
  • You will get asked about something that is already in your profile(are you Indian? hmm I didn’t think I looked anything else ;0))
  • You may find you have a really nice conversation with someone who then randomly stops talking to you
  • If you are lucky someone may even ask “Are you real?!” (yes it’s happened lol and I don’t know if it’s lucky or not)

There are a lot of other things that I am sure I will notice along the way….

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My Date with the Irishman and a Climbing man AKA Random guy

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Well I got to my date and it wasn’t as nerve racking as I thought it would be as we had talked so much over the past week that it felt like I knew who I was meeting from such a long time ago. Just goes to show  length of time means nothing sometimes. Only thing I didn’t know was what he would really look like. The photos he showed me were slightly different in each making me wonder what was an angle that was an illusion and what was real. In the flesh I wouldn’t particularly say he was good looking or bad looking but he was someone I couldn’t really place on my attraction radar. I enjoyed talking to him on the phone and via messages and in person there was no difference I just felt that he was a bit too outspoken and had no sense of tact which made me feel kind of uncomfortable but I had fun. We walked got some dinner and hung around a bit. After meeting we messaged and had a phone call and he seemed to think that continuous meeting was the way forward to get to know someone where as I was looking for a spark so wasn’t too sure what to do. I did discuss this with him and he told me to think about it. I decided one more meet couldn’t hurt but unfortunately due to a misunderstanding and taking a bit of offense to what I said we aren’t speaking anymore and won’t be meeting up so maybe it wasn’t meant to be. But then again if there is no attraction maybe dating wasn’t what we were supposed to have.

There was someone I have been speaking to for quite some time (if you remember from my Another update blog post- https://thesweetestpartsoflove.wordpress.com/2017/05/23/another-update/ I called him the Random guy) and for some reason we just didn’t manage to have a meet up, so have organised to meet and will see what happens with him. I will update ! ;0)

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