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Uncomfortable Work Romance

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I don’t think I have ever mentioned something like this before …well that’s because I have only just experienced it recently and for the very first time! It was not good. Not good at all and I have to say I handled it quite badly :0( BUT as they say it could have been worse.

BE WARNED!! IT’S LONG!

Basically I was at work. Pretty harmless place to be or so I thought. I was on my way out having finished working and I was passing by my other colleagues and saying my goodbyes when I heard one of the guys saying something and then whistling at somebody. I carried on towards the door until I heard my name being called. I turn around and there was one of my colleagues walking towards me. He looked a bit different… more confident somehow but then again I don’t really know him all that well. Lets back track a bit….

When I am at¬†work I will quite happily talk to anyone that talks to me and I will always try to be nice to everyone. There are certain people that I have spoken to¬†more than others but this guy I¬†could count the amount of times using both hands or less ;0) I remember the first time he spoke to me using my name¬†and I didn’t even know he knew my name as I didn’t even know who he was, I also remembered him coming off a bit shy and quiet and I¬†just assumed he was like that and so I never pressed him to talk to me too much.

There were other things I noticed about him that came up like he never lost an opportunity to try talk to me if he saw me alone and if he needed something he would always ask me and now I realise that was kind of an excuse to be around me. In spite of that he could never look me in the eye. During our passing conversations I remember my age coming up and I did know¬†we were not the same age already but he seemed quite shocked at the prospect of me being older then him and even more shocked when he knew how much. It wasn’t that much of a surprise as people always assume I am a lot younger (baby face me! :op) but he seemed bit more lost for words then most people have been. Lets fast forward again ;0)

To the awkward day again. ….

Walking towards me I waited patiently to find out what he wanted so I could be on my way home. He started saying something about wanting to talk to me more to get to know me better and asked for my number. I automatically assumed it was for friendship but to be sure I asked him a question. “As friends right?” he said yes so we swapped numbers and I headed out the door. In the car on my way home something clicked in my head that something seemed a bit strange. I waited until my colleague had finished work and sent him a message asking him¬†if he knew anything about what happened with the guy from work. He told me that¬†he likes me and¬†I asked “in what way?” he said “I don’t know he just wants to get to know you better”. Everything was clicking into place in my head and I realised that he may have a crush on me and I was not interested in anything but friends.¬†Later in¬†the day¬†I received a message from the¬†guy from work¬†and it started ok enough until he started asking things about if I lived alone, why I didn’t have a husband or boyfriend, what sort of guys I was interested in and other things. I texted my friend (colleague) telling him that I was going to set things straight with him and he told me just to say I had a boyfriend and hopefully he will leave me alone. He didn’t. The next say he texted me again and I had a busy day ahead so I didn’t say much but thing just felt awkward.

The day at work when he was in was awkward. I avoided him as much has possible until it just wasn’t possible. I had had a bad morning before coming into work and a conversation that awkward was just not what I wanted at that time. It got to a point when we were alone and for some reason as he was trying to get my attention the background¬†music had stopped making things even more embarrassing when he asked me questions about why I never a mentioned a boyfriend, why I gave my number and something about me getting in trouble. I told him that I didn’t think I was something to mention as when he asked to talk to me I asked if it was¬†FRIENDS and he had said “YES” He seemed annoyed with me and I wasn’t feeling good already and was now feeling worse so I told him I didn’t like him like that anyway and tried to get out of the situation. he ignored me the rest of my shift.

I know it comes off as bad and rude but¬† a conversation like that is just not to be had at work when it goes quiet and other people can hear you and I wasn’t in a place to talk. Finally when work¬†was over I got in the car and went home. I sent him¬†a message explaining I had a bad morning and not appreciating a conversation like that while we are work. I also mentioned that I didn’t need to say I had a boyfriend as he hadn’t asked me out and he never asked if I did have one. I also said that I was sorry if I had given him the wrong impression and that I was not romantically interested in him and that I always try to be nice people regardless of who they are and maybe he had mistook it for something else which was never my intention.¬† I also highlighted the fact that I had made it clear about swapping numbers as friends. He messaged back when he had finished work and told me it was his fault and that I didn’t need to apologise.¬†

There is more. A week or two after I was talking to my friend and the conversation of that guy at work came up and I found out he forgot to mention something to me. Silly guy that he is he thought it was funny. Turns out the guy from work had asked him (assumingly knowing we talk to each other and them being friends with each other too) if I had a boyfriend and he had told him that I was seeing someone and then the guy from work said I am going to ask anyway. Which makes no sense!!

Well that’s my story and it basically just makes the guy from work seem a bit strange to think that we could go out when I am in a relationship. I did make it obvious about the friend thing…..

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The Unexpected Friendships

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This post is for the friends that are a little unexpected, but who you still feel the need to spread the Love and joy to. There are times when they make you feel like the luckiest girl (or boy) in the world ;0) 

I have noticed that the older you get the more difficult it is to make friends unless you are in a place where people are more willing to talk. I have in the recent year or so due to certain changes in my life, have found rare and beautiful people who I feel such a wonderful connection with that I just can’t believe their behaviour and the way they talk to me (in a nice way!)

I have a friend who will always call me beautiful and have positive things to say in spite of her past, I have a friend who will make time to talk to me¬†even with the busyness of¬†having a big family to care for, I have a friend who is related to me and even with the age gap thinks the world of me, I have a friend who always calls me “hunny” who is actually kind of sweet even though I always found her intimidating, I have a friend who always smiles at me and understands where I am coming from and I even have a strange friend who I feel I could talk about anything to, who will surprise me with their behaviour in a small way¬†which is actually kinda big! These friends are old and new, of different ages, cultures and backgrounds but I have managed to bond with them and¬†I am in a happier place with my friendships and am very appreciative of them.

Something I feel that should be said is judgement is a very big barrier and when I was younger I did judge based on stereo types and I am much more free now I am willing to be more open and understanding. I feel my Special Someone played a big part in my thoughts. No matter what you think or even feel about certain people you will always be surprised by who may come along and how they may even change your life!

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Know your worth!

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Another of my cousin’s and mine¬†little chats and another thing I said to her which is pretty much going to be my blog post today ūüėÄ

You are a Beautiful and a very Unique girl and it’s something you shouldn’t forget.¬†

You aren’t a one night stand or something guys can pick up when they want and drop when they want.

You are special and have more worth then they can imagine, Make them work for it!!

Your time and affection aren’t cheap so don’t play easy and give it away for free- even the escorts don’t do that!!;-)

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Relationships You Want: Momoko and Yousuke

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I found an interesting nail polish with a green haired character on it which led me to look up Wedding Peach which is a similar show to Sailor Moon and I had never heard of it. I have watched almost all the episodes so far but I think the main character Momoko (Wedding Peach) and the guy she hates (really likes!) Yousuke are so adorable.

What they do for each other

Momoko goes after Yousuke when he gets kidnapped

Yousuke stays with Momoko at the nurses office after she gets hit by a football on the head

Momoko accompanies Yousuke in his punishment to clean the pool

Yousuke gives a ring to his friend to give to Momoko knowing that she has a crush on him and will be happier thinking the ring is from him

Momoko cheers on Yousuke when he plays goalie to a famous football star

Yousuke trys to protect Momoko against the Devils even when he has no idea what they are or what they are capable of

Momoko finds out Yousuke has devil blood and decides not to give up on him

Yousuke gives Momoko a Peach blossom flower branch when she is unwell

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Flying Footballs to the head

Kidnapping

A random nickname – Momopii

Fights/ arguments

Love/ Hate Relationship

 Overall this relationship shows

It is possible to Love and hate someone at the same time

People will do anything for you

Love conquers all

There can be such thing as cuteness overload!

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