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Respect Yourself and You will be Respected in turn

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I am sure in some of my previous posts I have mentioned similar things to this but I feel I should giveĀ respectĀ it’s own post ;0)

People are giving themselves less respect when it comes to relationships and they feel that they have no worth, however there are also people who feel that they should disrespect their bodies by putting themselves in certain situations that they aren’t quite comfortable with, whether it due to relationships, friendships or social situations in general.

One thing that is important to remember is that no matter what anyone else says, do things because that is what you want for you and in your life and because that is what you like.

I was talking to my cousin about stuff and she inspired me to write this post because of what we she said to me about my “empowering” (her word not mine ;0P)words. Sadly I could not remember exactly what I said but I am going to have a go at something similar, so bear with me šŸ˜€

“You are a well brought up, smart and beautiful girl (guy if any guys are reading ;0))and deserve to be Loved and respected. People are always going to think certain things about you and say certain things and treat you a certain way because they think its ok and that the fact they can charm youĀ will make it seem like you won’t notice that they are disrespecting you and playing around with you and you will fall for it. Never forget that you are worth something, worth more then they will ever know and that you won’t allow anyone to treat you than less your worth. Keep your head screwed on and use your common sense to work people out and always showĀ respect for yourself for when you doĀ people will start to respect you too

Hopefully this is making some sense as I really can’t remember what I said :0( But basically what I am trying to say is Love and respect you and your body because you are special and deserve lots and the people that are genuine will love and respect you back.

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Relationships You Want: Draculaura and Clawd

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Since I watched Ever After High I figured that I should watch Monster High too and I Love these two!

Draculaura is the daughter of Count Dracula and Clawd WolfĀ is the son of Werewolf and they make the most adorable monster couple sadly I couldn’t find a better picture of the two of them together.

What they do for each other

Draculaura sends Clawd letters everyday when she is at Glooms beach for her cheerleading

Clawd catches Draculaura when she falls off the pyramid after fainting from a sausage

Draculaura tries to hide her vegetarianism from Clawd when they eat lunch together

Clawd offers to take Draculaura to the danceĀ after Heath Burns insults her at the game

Draculaura chooses Clawd over a really romantic ValentineĀ 

Clawd decided to help Draculaura and her friends with the SKRM in spite of being against the girls playing

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What their relationship includes

Dancing even with the incredible height difference (she finds a high place so they are closer in height)

Ā Vampires and Werewolves PrejudiceĀ 

Daydream of running into the night where your werewolf bf almost changes under the moon if it weren’t for an umbrella

Group dates to the movies

Jeolous sister

Coaching the SKRM (girls) team

Ā Overall this relationship shows

It doesn’t matter if in a couple you eat meat or not you can still make it work

Whoever you are and whatever you are Love will exist

Your sister will come round eventually to the idea of best friend and brother dating

Height makes no difference Short can date tallĀ 

Even the most romantic guy in the world can’t steal your girl even if he is MR. Valentine himself

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“Practice Makes Perfect”- Part 2: Intimacy

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This blog post is the part two to the “Practice Makes Perfect”- Part 1:Ā Dating

Part 2: Intimacy…

Once you start dating you will eventually get close and intimate with your other half which is normally the way it goes. The way which it can also go is the way that may have consequences if you don’tĀ fully understand what you are getting into and that is when you get close and intimate to everyone and anyone just to get better and get “experience”, or even just because you want that sort of affection and it doesn’t matter who it’s from. With that situation it must be what you are really ok with, as it can effect things later in life and you may regret it.

A lot of people feel that before marriage or before settling with an official boyfriend/girlfriend they are committed to, they need to experience what is out there andĀ REMOVE their inexperience in being intimate. This is a strange way to think but peopleĀ do feel the needĀ “kiss a lot of frogs” not necessarily to find their prince but to find the best kissing frog ;0P If that is what you know you want and are happy with those kind of situations and know you won’t get emotionally involved then, each to their own. However there are people who want to experience everything with someone they are dating and are on their way to a committed relationship with, as those people will get emotionally attached and will find it difficult to have any kind of intimacy with someone they aren’t already dating or thinking of dating. I know that I am that kind of person. I don’t do no strings attached or unemotional intimacy that just isn’t for me. I would prefer to experience and learn everything with the one I Love as it’s part of the fun and the main experience. Bumping heads and kissing noses andĀ  fingers getting stuck in your hair is all part of itĀ  ;0)

When it comes to being intimate with differentĀ people whether it’s “making Love” or anything leading up to it including kissing,Ā it’s important to know that you can’t necessarily get better, unless it’s with the EXACT same person. With one particular person you can learn what THEY like and learn what YOU like and make the experience better for you both. If you are with someone you have no connection with, the experience may not live up to your expectations, as that person will do what they likeĀ which may not be enjoyable for you. They may try to do something you aren’t ready for or they maybe a bit rough, so it’s not something everybody can handle unless they make it known to the other person, that it’s not how they want things. (Please note of course you can pick up things from someoneĀ but it may not work the same way with another person if that makes sense)

One thing I learnt is that I need to know what I like, beforeĀ I am able to tell the personĀ I’m with and that comes with knowing myself. So in my opinion find out what you like firstĀ and then find someone you are willing to experience intimate situations with.

Each experience you have with someone is unique especially when it comes to intimacy so make it special and worth remembering, whether you are comfortable being with unofficial partners or someone you are in a relationship with šŸ˜€

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Happy 4th Birthday! :D

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It’s my Furry Princess’ Birthday!! YAY!

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MyĀ little girl is now FOUR!

Happy Birthday Little One !! šŸ˜€ Ā 

Lots and LotsĀ of Love

Mummy &Ā Daddy

(I know you can’t read ;0P)Ā 

MWAH!

X x x

P.S Happy Birthday to all the other Furry Princes and Princesses who are celebrating another year of getting older :D:D