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Halloween Day!

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Happy Halloween!

Enjoy your trick or treating, dressing up and pumpkin carving ;0)

Have Fun!

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Happy New Year for those celebrating Diwali 😀23032852715_2911cf9342_o

May the New Year bring you lots of Happiness 😀

Rexina

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Men’s’ logic

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Recent events and past events have just made me think that sometimes I just really don’t understand the way guys think. In particular my Special Someone. In spite of all the strange things that guys say and do we still Love them even though we just want to strangle them sometimes.

One thing that really annoys me is the constant “I’ll speak to you or I’ll call you later” at the end of the phone call, when that is not what they are actually going to do. It’s just something they say and crazy people we are, we actually think they mean it and wait for them to call, then wonder why they haven’t and get disappointed. I just don’t expect anything when it’s said as even though I have brought it up sometimes he forgets and still says it.

When you ask to meet up and they say they aren’t feeling up to it and aren’t going anywhere today and when you call later they say they are out and had to help their friend with some wok. Makes you wonder that instead of having a nice time with your sweet other half you want to go do some chore stuff with your friends….. ok that makes sense when you aren’t feeling like going out :p

When they are getting involved with mechanics or DIY stuff and even though they know gloves are needed and their other half has even gifted gloves they still do the work with out it and get injured, scratched up and end up with metal splinters in their fingers and wonder why it happens. oh dear!

Doctors orders! Being sick, injured or anything else and been told no alcohol, driving and all these other important rules they still feel the need to rebel. Just for their “one time” enjoyment it may add an extra few days or a week to their already predicted recovery time.

There are many other things but lets keep this post short ;0)

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Phones on Dates

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Is it really important?

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This is a pet peeve when I am with friends. I don’t mind people picking up their calls, letting people at home know when they are coming or telling the caller that they can’t talk but not when they are having a long conversation and leave you alone for over half hour and are constantly checking their phone for random things. I mean we are sitting right in front off them it’s kind of rude!! …..

Anyway… 😀 Going on dates is meant to be an intimate activity where you are close to someone and give and receive undivided attention to one another. Phones are not needed during this situation unless in emergency or something that is demanding your attention. Not social networks and friend’s idle chit chat. If you are interested in someone and have feelings for them, then respecting their time and valuing their company is a must, just as you would expect it from them too.

I have had experiences of dates where phone calls have come up and every one of my dates would apologise, explain who it was and quickly take the call either at the table and inform them that they are out and can’t really talk(if its a very quick call) or leave the table to go out. They always felt bad about it and there really was no need to, but it just gave me a good impression of them and how they care what I think and don’t want it to seem like they are being rude in any way. So nice! :0)

Enjoy the reality that’s right in front of you, not the screen on your phone. I can tell you which one will be more exciting :D:D

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Shy Regrets!

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I have talked about being shy in another blog post but that was more to do with making the best of shyness in friendships and dating. To see that post please click the link below:

https://thesweetestpartsoflove.wordpress.com/2015/06/30/hey-shy-one/

In this post I will be talking about regrets. This is the disadvantage of being shy, sometimes you miss out :0(

Shyness isn’t something everyone can get over easy so it’s not something you can do much about as I have mentioned I was a lot more shy before then I am now but I am still shy and I have had regrets. The regrets I have had have mostly been when I was dating and in a relationship.

The regrets I had are mostly missed chances and opportunities, whether I should have said something or done something I felt the same for both. I wish I had been more confident in myself that I could say exactly how I feel, what I think and what I want from someone without being embarrassed. If I had done so things would have been different. There wouldn’t have been awkward silences, misunderstandings or just general weirdness. If I could imagine less and do more of what I want it may turn out better then the fantasy I dream up sometimes.

There was a time a couple of New Years back when I had joked to my Special Someone that he had to cook dinner (he doesn’t cook anything more then breakfast ;0)) and he thought it was a terrible idea and I had convinced him unknowingly to cook us a New Years Dinner. I got all dressed up thinking we was going out but he wanted to head off home real quick talking about some pot. I wasn’t entirely sure of what he was talking about but when we got in there were a couple of things on the go and he rushed back in the kitchen. He was getting all busy with his hot oven and bubbling pots and I was just amazed at all the effort he had put in even though I was joking. I had wanted to give him a big kiss and hug right then and to let him know just how special he was, but I was afraid I would distract him and ruin all his effort. I could have said something to make that moment even better and to fully show my appreciation but I didn’t.

There was a time when we were out having Anniversary dinner and normally I’m all for lovey dovey moments but just because of where we were sitting and how echoe-y it was when my Special Someone had told me he had missed me, Loved me and thought I was a pretty one instead of saying something nice I decided to make a joke. yes I know I am one of those. I was embarrassed and extremely shy and to make things better I made a very non funny joke just to make things less awkward. I really wish I hadn’t. It’s a rare moment we have and I kinda ruined it and I had wanted to say all these things that I wanted but I couldn’t. I could have had a really nice romantic memory on my anniversary if I only had ben less embarrassed.

Shy regrets, try and have as less of those as you can :D:D

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Fake Prince Charming

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I was thinking of talking about something slightly different which is not entirely connected to relationships. Around ten years ago during my online phase which I have mentioned in my “online dating posts” I remember meeting lots of people. Mostly guys who I thought wanted to be friends. Due to what happened with them it really puts me off when guys call me babe or anything else like it especially when we have just met, girls however it’s different. The guys online were a bit strange and basically to put in a clichĂ© “only want(ed) one thing” and before any of you guys reading this say anything, no it’s not all guys. I have met some nice guys online some I dated, became friends with and still keep in contact with today.

The guys I’m talking about used to be extremely over the top friendly and would call me “Babe” “Baby” “Sexy” or “Hun” after just meeting or talking to me, until I realised that they were no good. They start off all nice and sweet, asking how you are, what you’ve been up to and taking an interest in you…. then they change. They never really cared how you are and they never wanted to know more then they feel they needed to know and they would start asking for things and when you were hesitant or refused they would emotionally black mail you and make you feel bad. The only thing is that the way they used to do it was in such a way that you would want to keep them happy as they would still be cute and charming. The charm would change even more and they would start to get evil. As a young, naĂŻve and innocent girl they will know exactly how to get round you.

Now ten years later I am very against guys calling Babe, Baby and Sexy however I am slightly ok with Love and Darling as I have noticed some British guys just talk that way. For me I am very wary of guys like that I will always assume they are dodgy after what I went through.You want a guy to call you Beautiful and Gorgeous not Babe and Sexy. Be appreciated inside and out 😀

Just a little message for you out there please be wary of guys like this whether they are online or in real life. Never let them make you feel that you need to do certain things for them and never make them make you feel you aren’t good. Have some self respect for yourself. Tell them to get lost ;0)

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