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Lovers Tiff!: First Fight!

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The picture looked bit funny if you imagine that the boxer is the boyfriend and the pair of legs (the ring girl) as the girlfriend hehe

I don’t think we have talked about this “first”, so here we go! I will be honest and say I am sure I have blocked out the first fight my Special Someone and I had so I can’t really pinpoint what was disagreements, arguments and fights (yes I am using all three words that may very well mean one thing ;0) hehe)

First fights, well what can I say they are the one thing that you absolutely dread having with the person you Love, but eventually it will happen. It’s important to have some kind of release when things aren’t always ok and it is also important to remember that just because you have a fight it doesn’t mean your relationship is coming to an end or that you are always going to have problems after this. There are people out there that argue all the time but Love each other dearly and their relationship is just made that way, there are people who have never ever had a fight but occasionally don’t agree with their other half, which doesn’t make their relationship  as perfect as they like and there are even people who once in a while have a fight but manage to make things ok again or sit and sort through what is going on and get over it. All these couples I mentioned above are all right in their own way, none are above the other as there’s no such thing as a “perfect” relationship (except the one you call your own :0p).

When it comes to having problems don’t avoid it or run off as that only makes things worse. Problems may go away for a bit but they will come back again at some point so it’s best to deal while its fresh and if you end up fighting you are just gonna have to be brave and get through it. I know fights are scary, but sometimes learning the best way to get through it and over come the problems is what could only improve things. It could even result in little to none fights as you may solve things before it even gets to that stage.

I have always said that seeing your other half’s many faces is important. You need to know how they behave and react to different situations so you know the best way to handle things in the present and future. Fights may not be pretty but they seem to be an important lesson in relationships so if it comes along just get it over with, you might find you know exactly what to do.

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“Hi Boyfriend :0)”

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I remembered something I would like to share something with you. The very first day me and my Special Someone had become an exclusive couple.  I remember that the day was the same day as my mum’s birthday and the day after our official date. We had met up for lunch and had gone to the park and I remember having a conversation about where we are. My Special Someone was very certain about what he wanted. He had made it very clear that he had wanted to be my boyfriend and that I was the only one who was confused.

On the car ride home I started thinking. The sun was going down and the wind was blowing my hair back from the roof being down. I looked over to the drivers seat and could see my Special Someone’s eyes. I think he could feel me looking at him and looked over a few times. Feeling what was happening, the sunset, the wind and the sitting in the front seat of a car next to someone I felt “something” for I decided it was something to take a risk on. I made a decision.. with a text message.

“Hi Boyfriend”

 His phone buzzed and bleeped and he had a sneaky look at his messages. He smiled and looked over and said Hiya Girlfriend.

The text message that started it all 😀  

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Taken By Love: Attracted Physically

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Relationships most of the time seem to have been all in the name of spontaneity, whirlwind romances and people being swept off their feet in a blink of an eye. One thing that we all seem to think about last is being practical.

Being physically attracted to someone is something that happens to a lot of people, its when your hormones and eyes act first before your heart. At least that’s what I think.

I have kissed someone randomly and unexpectedly before I even knew what was happening. I have never been that kind of girl but it just happened. I never planned for anything to happen and I didn’t even know what would happen next. However I do know I have no regrets.

  He was my Special Someone :0) 

If you come across a similar situation where you just act on hormones just be a little careful of what you want and the intentions of the other person. With my Special Someone and I, we eventually sorted what exactly was going on before two weeks of making out and lunch dates so it was ok. If you both know what you want, whether its a fling or a serious relationship, at least you both know where you stand so there are no regrets or disappointment (not right at that time. Enjoy your moment ;0P).

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Feeling Without Friends

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There are times in your life when your friends are people you really need the support of. You start to feel lonely and you feel that there is no one you can turn to when you need to talk. I have been there. There have been times where I have really needed someone and I have called both mobile and house and been “ignored”for weeks. I have always tried to be understanding of other people no matter what it was. I know people have other priorities and are busy but when a phone is in constant use and is carried practically every where, how can you not have any kind of reply for weeks on end. I am trying to be understanding still but for some reason it only means my suffering :0(

I have been getting on with my own things and getting through my own problems on my own and for the most part it has been ok but deep down something isn’t right. I have noticed my behaviour, actions and my thoughts are completely messed up and I find my self crying for hours or not at all or forcing happiness only to feel down later. I have actually driven to work in tears and driven home singing and laughing and then just feeling neutral border lining on sad for the rest of the day(my work day ends in the morning in case you wondering)

I have spoken about depression before and it’s a sensitive topic and sometimes it gets so bad that you can’t even deal with it on your own and you can’t talk to anyone else about it and have to resort to therapy and speak to counsellor about your problems and work out why you are feeling the way you are.

As I have said in previously blog posts communication is important and being alone is ok up to a point but as social creatures its important to have someone to be there for you and that’s where your friends normally come in. The people you share your problems with, who know you inside and out and who will make time for you no matter what or so they say, but when it comes down to it you have to rely on yourself and I can do that up to a point until things just get too much and I break down.

You are the one you can rely on and sometimes there are times when you are all you’ve got….. 

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