Hey Hey!! 😀
I have talked a lot about relationships but I think we are forgetting an important person 😀 YOU! ;0)
When it comes to you, how much do you Love yourself? Do you have alone time? Do you pamper yourself? Do you even like yourself?
If you not too sure about these answers then you may want to think about doing things for yourself because when you do get in to a relationship, it will be difficult for the other person to Love you, when you don’t Love you.
Here are some links to some of my previous posts I feel might be helpful:
There are some people that I know of, that feel very low about themselves, they don’t like themselves but want to be in a relationship. It will be hard to come out of this negative thinking, but you do need to focus on your good points first to get any where 😀 Please click the links above to see what I’ve written above and be prepared for more stuff in this blog post 😀
What I’ve noticed with a lot of people is that they want things, but don’t want to do anything about it and yes I will say that sometimes some work is needed for things to get done. If you would like to be in a relationship and want someone to Love you then work on Liking and Loving yourself as a person first, to “attract” someone to you ;0)
I think the first step to liking yourself is knowing yourself. The key to your happiness! What do you like? What do you enjoy doing? What are your favourite things? Do you have anything interesting about yourself? When you have your answers then make a step forward to encourage all those things that you like. If wearing red makes you feel good then wear it more often. If you enjoy cooking Mexican food then try out as many different Mexican recipes. Whatever it maybe do what you like as often as you can and if you don’t know what you like then find out. Spend some time trying things out and talking to others and find new things that you enjoy and that make you happy in your spare time.
Sharing yourself with others
When you have encouraged what you like and what makes you happy now is the time to share it with others. I know sometimes there are certain things that you would like to keep to yourself but I think it is important to share your interests and talents with others (even if you keep something secret to keep things mysterious ;0)) When sharing your interest there are many ways to do it. If you like baking maybe invite a friend to do some baking together and you can show them your recipes and your icing skills and if you are quite crafty, use your talent to make gifts for your friends and family on special occasions or anything else you can think of.
I know this sounds quite strange but it is rather important. When you go out do you always go with someone or are you quite happy on your own and I don’t mean going round the block for take way or dropping a package at the post office I mean spending at least a couple of hours going out alone. I have done this before when my Special Someone started jury service and I wasn’t able to see him much so I ended up spending the days we would have spent together on my own. It was a bit hard to do but in the end I actually enjoyed going on my own, doing things I wanted, spending how long I wanted on things and when I was ready to go home.
Being on your own and doing things on your own and doing things for your own happiness whether you are attached or not, is important so get out there and do things for you!! 😀
Be happy for you! ;0)
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